Dear Pastor,

I am a 19-year-old girl attending university. I am caught in the middle between two men whom I love so much. I have been with my genuine boyfriend for four years now and we have been through a lot. He has cheated on me before and got another girl pregnant, but we have moved on from that. I have been with the other guy since last year and whenever I am not happy with my boyfriend, he makes me smile.

My boyfriend is an officer and the next guy is a tour guide. They both treat me like a queen. The two of them perform well in bed. I just can't refuse them. They encourage me to do my best in school.

I am just confused. They never let me down. The other guy has his woman but is always there for me. Pastor, I can't choose because they are so good to me. What should I do?

University Student

Dear University Student,

You are bad and proud of it. You have written to me to tell me how much you enjoy these guys in bed. You have stated that you can't refuse them.

If you continue that lifestyle, you will get into trouble. You have been with the police officer for four years. The relationship was not perfect (none is) but you have complicated matters, by getting sexually involved with another man.

You are not only bad, you are greedy. Do what is right.

Pastor