Dear Pastor,

I don't like a man who has many kids because it tells me he was a reckless youth and there isn't much money for him to spend on me. However, if he makes time to spend with his kids and ensure all their needs are met, that is impressive to me.

A woman can impress a man in the following ways:

By having a good job, be in good health, practise good hygiene, dress well, be on time, family oriented, be god-fearing, be ambitious and make time for the one she loves.

T.

Dear T.,

You have laid out the criteria women should have in seeking good men. Some women may disagree with you but that is the way you see it.

Pastor