Dear Pastor,

I believe the way to impress a man is by listening to him first to find out his desire, goals, likes and dislikes. I would also cook for him, give him a massage after a long day's work, tell him I appreciate him, show appreciation in every ways possible, let him feel like a man, feel needed, don't stress him out and give him good love.

I would also try to impress him by preparing a hot meal by the time he comes home, also impress him by being an independent woman and let him feel I can stand on my own. I have to make sure I have a good education, job and money in the bank, etc.

S.C., New York

Dear S.C.,

Any intelligent man would love a woman who is willing to do the things you have mentioned. I hope if you don't have a man, you will get one soon and put into practice what you have written. I wish you well.

Pastor