Dear Pastor,

My partner is 66 and has been cheating on me with a younger woman who is 35 and another in her 20s. Pastor, I should also mention he is diabetic. He had a very healthy sex drive where I am concerned. As time went by, he needed some help and is now using viagra. Pastor, that was all the passport he needed to venture out. The excuses came hard and fast. Pastor, I had to do my own detective work to find out the truth.

I would like to write to you personally about my cheating partner. I could go into more detail about the whole story so you might be able to more understand what I am saying. I am writing to you from the UK. I need so much help, I can't think straight because I am so angry and I don't know where to turn. I would very much like to share my experience with you and others.

C.F., United Kingdom

Dear C.F.,

Feel free to write me again at any time. You have said quite a bit about your cheating husband. He is not a very healthy man but he is trying to behave as if he is hot. He has his girlfriends. To be able to function sexually, he is using Viagra. Poor man. The little that he has left in his body should be kept for you. I hope he will come to himself and stop fooling around.

I hope you will be able to convince your husband that both of you should go and meet with a family counsellor. In the meantime, try your best to live harmoniously with your husband.

Pastor