Dear Pastor,

My boyfriend and I don't always have sexual intercourse. I enjoy giving him oral sex, and he enjoys getting it from me. But he does not do oral sex to me because he is not that type.

Friend

Dear Friend,

I hope that you are aware that although you enjoy having oral sex, such sex should only be practised with a person who is truly committed to one spouse and is clean and in good health. Oral sex comes with great risks. Recent studies have shown that people who practice oral sex, expose themselves to certain diseases.

Pastor