Dear Pastor,

I have a girlfriend. She is 23 years old and I am 27 years old. She only wants us to have sex on a Friday night. And as soon as we finish having sex, she wants me to give her money. I picked up what was going on and she was not ashamed to tell me that her mother told her that her vagina is her asset, and her asset must not be given away without something in return. I get my pay every Friday, so I must pay her for what she gives me.

What do you think about that?

P.B., Kingston

Dear P.B.,

Lots of women consider their vaginas and their entire body their assets. I do not know whether the mother of your girlfriend meant that she should behave as a prostitute by selling herself. But one thing is clear, is that she is not prepared to have sex with you without charging you for it.

If you do not have sex with this woman, you won't die and at least you will be keeping money in your pocket or in the bank. Perhaps if you were to marry this woman, she would stop charging you.

I wish you had mentioned how much she charges you to go 'there'.

Pastor