Dear Pastor,

I am a 17-year-old young man and I have had sex with 15 girls in one year. Some of them are older than I. All of them say that they love me. I always use a condom. But my problem is that we have a new helper and I want to have sex with her. When I told her, she called me a little boy and threatened to tell my mother. My mother knows that I am having sex because she asked me and I told her yes. She even bought condoms and put them in my bag.

I begged the helper not to tell her that I asked her for sex, because she wouldn't want to know that I wanted to copulate with the helper. I look much older than my age so a lot of women don't believe that I am in school unless they see me in my uniform.

F.

Dear F.,

You are a young man and you ought to learn and learn fast that sex is something that you cannot finish. It has never been done, and believe it or not, you will grow up and die and leave sex behind. You are abusing a good thing and you ought to know that having sex with so many women is not cool. You have to learn to control your sexual urges. Everyone must practise self-control, whether male or female.

I wish the helper had carried out her threat by reporting you to your mother. You should have more respect for the helper. She is not working there to be used by you. You are not too young to learn that if you do not control your sexual appetite you are going to get yourself into serious trouble.

Pastor