Dear Pastor,

I am asking you for some advice. I met this guy from I was going to school and we became friends. The relationship was going well until after I left school, he went and slept with another girl who is his co-worker. He said she asked him for a ride home and he stopped at his house to pick up something. She went into his room and took off all her clothes and they ended up having sex.

He begged me to forgive him and I did. I even became pregnant by him, but now it haunts me when I think of how he kissed and touched her. I don't know what to do because I have also found out that he was flirting with her before they had sex.

I am not around him now, but we are still having a relationship and I am wondering if he is sincere or whether he will have sex with the girl again.

Should I forget him and move on? Please advise me.

Worried Girlfriend

Dear Worried Girlfriend,

I don't believe your boyfriend has told you the truth. He has lied on his co-worker. Both of them planned to have sex and they went to his house for that purpose. He did not stop at his house to pick up anything and she offered him sex.

He is lying, nothing went like that. You shouldn't be so naïve to believe that nonsense. Now, whether they will continue to have sex, I do not know. Perhaps you should suggest to him that the three of you should meet together and have him declare before the two of you which of you he intends to have a serious relationship with and to marry. You need to know whether it is his co-worker or you who is going to be his woman.

Pastor