Dear Pastor,

I am a 26-year-old lady with a big problem. I am deeply in love with a man who cares nothing about me. He was very nice and was almost perfect until eight months into the relationship. I don't know why. I asked him over and over, what was it that I had done, but he keeps ignoring me. Whenever I ask him what went wrong, he just changes the subject.

At one point, it was as if we were no longer in a relationship. It was near to my birthday. When my birthday came, he said nothing to me about it. When his birthday came, I showed him love but it seemed like nothing to him.

Pastor, I love this man very much. I don't know what else to do to please him or to have him love me the way I love him.

I am seeking your advice.

S.H., St Catherine

Dear S.H.,

This relationship is one-sided. You seem to be giving your all. This man is not reciprocating. He ought to tell you whether he wants to continue the relationship. He is not treating you with respect. Communication is almost none-existent. If this man continues to treats you with disdain, you should end the relationship.

Pastor