I read your column in THE STAR and I also listen to your radio programme almost every night and I am astonished. I need your help.

I am 18. I have a male friend who is 20. One night we slept together. During the night, I woke up and found my penis in his mouth. He was making good use of it. I also ejaculated in his mouth. He wants to continue this all the time.

What should I do? I am looking forward to your response in THE STAR.

C., St Catherine

Dear C.,

Evidently you did not put up any resistance when you discovered that this man had your penis in his mouth. You write as someone who is not seeking any help from me, but just telling a smutty story. If you did not want this man to continue this sort of behaviour with you, you should not be sleeping with him. You should break friendship with him and make an appointment to see a family counsellor.

Pastor