Dear Pastor,

I believe a very special lady should be treated well, and she should treat her man just the same. I think her man should take her out sometimes for a very nice dinner. If he has the money, he could stay at a hotel for the night. She will be sweating and ready for him when nature calls.

Dinner and wine will do the trick for a beautiful lady and then you go home and the rest is history.

B.

Dear B.,

Occasionally, a man and his wife can indeed spend sometime together in an all-inclusive hotel. However, some couples find it difficult to make ends meet, so to speak, and cannot eat out often. Some men sport a lot and waste money on women. They wine and dine when they should have been saving their money and setting a good foundation for their children.

What is needed is balance in a relationship. Men ought not to waste their money trying to impress women. The women will suck them dry and laugh at them. Only people who can afford it should wine and dine. Those who can't shouldn't put themselves into debt.

Pastor