Dear Pastor,

Romance is the hub of a relationship. Romance is not just about what you do for your partner or what your partner does for you. It is also about what you do together. It is just as exciting to do house chores together, as it is watching a movie. The little things you do together, like washing clothes and cooking, means more to some females than just sending a rose or buying her a gift on a special occasion.

You can be a romantic partner without having money, so men do not have any excuse about not being romantic. Simply rubbing your partner's tummy when she is having menstrual cramps and screaming 'I love you' is very romantic.

T.

Dear T.,

Are you serious when you say washing clothes can be romantic? I suppose throwing water on each other during the washing would be the romantic part of this task.

Pastor