One day I heard something and when I went home, I saw a car at the gate, and I went in and she was locked up in the house with a man. This was the house that both of us lived in and I was paying the rent for it. The doors were locked so I called her and called her, but she would not come out and I would not leave. I started to make a noise and the neighbours came out and the man who was in there came out. And I asked him what he was in there doing with my woman. He didn't answer. He got into his car and drove away. When I went inside I was about to beat my girlfriend, but she begged me not to do it because she was embarrassed.

Pastor, I could have lost my job the night because I am a security officer and I should have been on my job, but someone told me that every night when I am at work my girlfriend always bring men at the house. She told me that the both times when she told me she lost the babies, she aborted them because they were not mine.

I still love this woman. She is asking me not to leave her, but the neighbours are laughing at me. I don't even play dominoes with the men in the area as I used to do, because they are stilling calling my girlfriend a wicked woman.

I.N., Kingston

Dear I.N.,

Don't be a fool. Run from this woman. Run as fast as you can and don't look back. The things that you gave to her, leave her with them. Don't take back anything. Whenever she sees them, she will remember that you have been good to her but she has not been good to you. She is a liar and a deceiver. You need a better woman. You have done your best to help her, but she is a user and she is untrustworthy. Her conscience is smeared.

I say to you again, run. Don't look back, no matter how she begs you to stay. Remember that she does not love you. She loves money and perhaps that is one of the reasons why she has kept other men with you. Don't be a fool, young man. Run for your life.

Pastor