Dear Pastor,

I have been talking to a man for almost 10 years. I love him but the relationship is difficult at times. We don't live together. We live in different States.

He doesn't know what he wants. I consider myself as a very good woman, especially to him, as I am very consistent. I don't know what to do with him. I enticed him in various ways but don't get the results I want. I never get any gifts or anything from him, but I always give him stuff because I love him.

G.L., Silver Spring, MD

Dear G.L.,

You are having a one-sided relationship. You have given your all to this man, but he has given nothing. He doesn't reciprocate. Frankly, I believe that you are wasting your time with him. How can you have a relationship with a man and he has never given you a gift. He is a mean and wicked man. You should end the relationship with him forthwith.

Pastor