This is the first time I am writing to you, but I am a regular reader of your column. Sometimes I would like to listen to your show, but I have to go to my bed early.

I am a Christian and I am married. Before I met my husband I had only one boyfriend. We used to have sex about three times a week. Then I became a Christian, so we broke up. It was a difficult time for me because I loved him, but he said he was not ready to become a Christian. He went his way and I went mine.

I kept myself pure after my boyfriend and I broke up. Then I met a man from another church, and we became friends and got married. But he is so different from my ex-boyfriend. As I come home from work he wants sex. He doesn't allow me to take a shower first, no matter how I plead with him, he just strip me and have sex with me anywhere in the house.

He likes me when I am sweaty. If I resist, he asks me if I have somebody on the road. He knows that I am faithful, but because I want to clean up first and he wants sex right away, he asked that.