I am a 17-year-old female who is in love with an 18-year-old male. He shows me love most of the time, but he is never interested in being around me. Only when he wants to have sex, he calls my phone, although I never put up with this.

Second, there is this freaky guy that I met on Facebook recently who wants to perform oral sex with me. What should I do?

I am focusing on school, but these things keep popping up in my thoughts.

Please give me your advice.

Truly Confused, St Thomas

Dear Truly Confused,

You would face these types of challenges from men. It will happen all the time. Some guys are only interested in one thing from girls, and that is to have sex with them. This guy who does not spend any time with you is clearly not interested in you as a person. He only wants sex from you, so you should run him. He does not want anybody to see him with you.

The man you met on Facebook is no better. Can you imagine the number of other girls that he has met on Facebook and perhaps telling them the same thing? Please understand that you are not special. When it comes to sex, some men do not discriminate. They will go with any woman who is available. Whenever you meet anybody like that on Facebook, move on. Choose your friends wisely.

Pastor