We are only dating. But the guys have proposed to us, but both of them wants us to start having sex with them first. And my sister's boyfriend wants her to move in with him, but she told him no. My sister says that if I want to go ahead, she would end the relationship with her boyfriend because she doesn't believe that as twin sisters we should have two brothers. I love my boyfriend because I have found him to be caring. He is also educated. And he has invested his money in his father's business. Both guys are entrepreneurs.

Another problem my sister and I are having is that they do not consider themselves black. They are Latinos. And we do not know whether their parents like us and would accept us. They are prejudiced. We are looking forward to hearing from you. We enjoy reading your column and listening to you on the radio.

Twin Sisters, USA

Dear USA,

Your sister and yourself are not comfortable in your relationships. You have your doubts about these men. You feel that these men might use you. And whenever you are in doubt about a man who says he loves you, don't go further in the relationship.

Both of you girls do not wish to have two brothers as lovers and you are not sure whether their parents would accept you as in-laws, so bring an end to this nonsense right now.

Your sister shouldn't even consider moving in with her boyfriend. You know that they are prejudiced. They don't like black people, so tell these guys you are not interested.

Pastor