Dear Pastor,

I have been married for 10 years but my wife and I are separated. We are not divorced, but we have not been living together. We have a daughter, but my wife does not seem to be the settle-down type.

I was feeling some pains and I went to the doctor and the doctor told me that I have a sexually transmitted disease. I started to argue with the doctor. I told him that only one woman I have had sex with and that is my wife. The doctor told me he can prove it and I told him don't bother. He gave me a prescription and I filled it and from that day I have not had sex with my wife because I don't trust her.

I would like to divorce her so I am asking you to give me the name of a lawyer that I can go to see to get a divorce.

S.P., St Catherine

Dear S.P.,

I do not wish to comment on what you have accused your wife of doing. However, if you have decided to file for divorce, you could contact the Legal Aid Clinic. You will find them to be very co-operative and helpful. Their numbers are listed.

Pastor