Dear Pastor,

I have a concern. I am with a guy for the past three years but he is living in another district. I am in the position to know that he is seeing someone else but he continues to tell me that he is not seeing anyone. For the past five months, I can't see him. I only get phone calls.

I would like your fatherly advice on what to do.

Concerned Lover

Dear Concern Lover,

You should consider dropping this man as your boyfriend. He is a joker and he is fooling you.

Pastor