I am having a problem. I am married for two years and one night my husband and I were in bed and my telephone rang. It was a man on the line. He asked for a certain person and I told him, "Wrong number," and I ended the call. He called back a second time and I said the same thing, "wrong number." My husband asked me who the person was and I told him I didn't know but the person had the wrong number. He asked me for the phone but the number was blocked. He said he believed my man was calling, and because he was there I couldn't talk to him. Nothing I could say to my husband could make him change his mind, or convince him I was talking the truth.

Another night when my husband was not at home the same man called. I told him he has caused problems in my marriage. He said that he didn't mean to, but he loves my voice and would like to meet with me when he comes to Jamaica. I told him not to call back. But pastor, my husband keeps talking about what happened the night when he was at home. And he told me he would do 'so and so' to me if I cheated on him. I have no reason to cheat on my husband, because he is a good man and I respect him.

I.N., St James

Dear I.N.,

I understand some men, who have nothing to do, dial numbers at random and when women answer they try to become very friendly and offer help to them. And many women have established intimate relationships with these men.

Your husband should behave like a grown man. Sometimes genuine mistakes are made in the dialling of numbers. Have no fear because you know you are not cheating. I hope this man will not call your telephone number again. Any time your phone rings and you observe the number is blocked, ignore the call. I wish you well.

Pastor