Greetings to you. I am having a problem. I cannot get an erection whenever I am having sex with my wife. I am in my early thirties and I have been married for seven years. My wife is the only woman I have. I fear that I am going to lose my wife and it makes me feel insecure.

I am asking you if you could recommend me to someone who can help me. I have tried vitamins but nothing has worked. It makes me feel ashamed because I am not making my wife feel good. Sometimes my wife doesn't even want to have sex, and it sometimes causes an argument.

For a man at my age, I have a small penis. I went to two different herbalists and I am still having the same problem. I hope you publish my letter so that I can see the answer

N.P., Kingston

Dear N.P.,

I can suggest different things that men have told me that they have used, but I believe that what you should do is to make an appointment to see an urologist. If your wife and yourself would like to discuss the matter with me, you may call my assistant. My numbers are listed.

Pastor