Dear Pastor,

I am in trouble. I had sex with an Indian man. He used to love me and helped me in my troubles, but now he is married. I still love him. I don't know what to do? I am looking for your advice.

S.A. Dear S.A.,

You have to learn to move on. This man was very helpful to you, but he didn't marry you. He married another woman. Perhaps he loves that woman more than you. So although it would be difficult for you not to think about him from time to time, accept the fact that he belongs to someone else. And pray that God will give you a good man who would treat you even better than the Indian man.

Pastor