Dear Pastor,

This is my first time writing to you but I am having a serious problem and I need your fatherly advice.

I am a 19-year-old young man who met a girl, who is two years younger than I am. I met her by calling her one night on free nights. I didn't get through calling her that night, so she called me back the following morning. We talked and soon after, she started calling me often. We got to know a lot about each others' business and personal data.

After telling her that my father was a billionaire and that I had a good amount of money in the bank, everything changed about her. We are only talking for three weeks now and she wants me to be her babyfather, which I am not ready for. She wants to come and live with me and wants me to buy her a house, find a job for her and a whole lot more.

I really loved her style and ways, until she said these things to me. I don't want to hurt her but I want to stop talking to her and tell her that she is not the one I am looking for. What should I do? I await your advice.

Billionaire Son

Dear Billionaire Son,

You are only 19 and you claim that your girlfriend is only 17. It is, therefore, very unusual that a girl her age would ask a 19 years old man to buy her a house. On the other hand, if you gave her the impression that you are wealthy (as you have done), nothing would be too big for her to ask you to do.

Sometimes you guys lie to impress young women. You told her that your father is a billionaire. I wonder who is he. This I believe is a big chat, and you should call the young lady and tell her you do not wish to continue the relationship. And, please, tell her you did not tell her the whole truth about yourself. Tell her you are a liar.

Pastor