Dear Pastor

I am a 19-year-old male and I have a problem. I live with my mother and I am her only child. We are renting from a woman and she is very sexy. Sometimes I peep on her, but she is not aware of it. Sometimes when I see her in shorts, I have an erection right away. When she is washing and she is in her shorts and she does not have on any bra, I just love the way she looks. Even when she puts out her panties on the line, they are so sexy.

One day, I went outside when she was feeding the dog, and she saw me looking at her and she asked me what happened and I told her nothing.

She has a boyfriend. He is a much older man and when he comes to see her, he is there for hours and I wish I was the one there with her. I wish my girlfriend was as sexy as her. I know peeping on her is a nasty habit, but I cannot help it.

S.D., St Andrew

Dear S.D.,

I am sorry for you and I mean it. I am fearful if you do not learn to control yourself, you will get into trouble. You will have to learn to see this young woman and not peep or lust after her. If this woman finds out, she will give you and your mother notice to leave her apartment.

All young boys admire beautiful women, but they have to control their sexual urges. If they don't, they will rape. Your problem goes beyond admiring; you are a peeping tom.

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People may say you are sick and need psychological help. You are behaving like a pervert. You are having sexual gratification from peeping. It is a crime to peep on women. Therefore, if you find you cannot help yourself, you need to see a psychologist before your condition gets worse.

Do not put yourself in any position that would make it easy for you to peep on this woman. If you continue to peep on her, she will never trust you and your mother and you will have to seek another place to live.

Pastor