This is my first time writing to you. I met a 34-year-old man last year. He is broke but he is a sexy man. We have been seeing each other since the time we met but, he is not my man. My man and I are not 100 per cent because we both found out that we are HIV positive.

The man I met has a girlfriend and she found out about us and has been calling my phone. I told her I did not know her man and that it was the wrong number. My nosey neighbours told her I am seeing her man so she has started calling my phone again.

make their lives miserable

Pastor, she has sent me threats which have made me very angry, and so, I am going to make sure her man gets the full dose of the AIDS to pass on to her. I have what it takes to make their lives miserable. I have sex with this man many times. He knows that I have a man and now his woman is calling me a whore.

I am going to fix her business properly. And, every good-looking man, I have news for you. "A nuff a we a go down with AIDS". I am hurt. I am not going to stop having sex with this man. I don't care about his money! I have something to give him which he might already have, because we do so many things together.

AIDS Victim,

Dear AIDS Victim,

What do you hope to gain by passing this dreadful disease to others? You claim that this man's girlfriend has been calling and threatening you. She wants you to leave her man and you are very upset because you feel that she has no right calling you. Therefore, you are going to take revenge by continuing to have unprotected sex with this man, so that he will catch the disease and infect his girlfriend.

practising evil

How could you be so iniquitous? Aren't you afraid of the judgement of God? You should be looking to God for deliverance. Instead, you are practising evil and bringing damnation upon yourself. If you were a good woman, you would tell this new man and his girlfriend that you have HIV/AIDS and that they should seek medical attention. In fact, if you truly love this man, you wouldn't have had unprotected sex with him.

I am therefore begging you to change your attitude towards this man and his girlfriend. Inform them of your condition. Change your plan towards all men. Remember that each one of us has to stand before God and give an account for what we have done, whether good or evil. So you cannot escape God's wrath if you continue to practice evil. Now is the time to repent and turn to God. Do so before it's too late.

Pastor