Dear Pastor,

I consider myself somewhat hard to please, but a decent date with a decent man would be to have him meet me at the door with a peck to the forehead, and open the car or cab door.

clueless

And to complement my outfit, while I do the same, pulling out chairs, opening doors, we both act graciously and, at the end of the night, a peck on the cheek at the door, a friendly hug, then good night.

Many Jamaican men need to be taught, at a young age, how to treat a woman on a date because so many of them are clueless how to behave, even here in the United States of America. Dictatorship by men is not decency.

J.B., USA

Dear J.B.,

I wish you well as you try to find this type of man who would give you a peck before he takes you home. I suppose you are talking about a man with whom you are not having a relationship. The way things are going, you might have to create your own man and call him 'Mr Pecker'.

Pastor