Dear Pastor,

I have been with my baby mother from early 2009 and I had never cheated. We argued at times but nothing serious. We always talk about getting married when we accomplish certain goals in life. I love her and I always told her that she was the one I am going to settle down with.

I had unprotected sex with her at times. In January, I noticed some white discharge from my penis and I asked her if she had been with anyone else and she said no. When I went to the doctor he said it was an STD. I asked her again and she told me she had oral sex in a vehicle one night. She also said she went in the person's car in a towel and panties.

I still have feelings for her and she still says she loves me and she is sorry. Our daughter is nearly two years old. What do you think, pastor?

L.S.,

Dear L.S.,

What did this lady mean by she went into the person's car in towel and panties? Whose car was it and where was it parked? Was it parked in your yard or on the street?

Be wise, sir. This woman is a 'bunner'. Don't believe a word she says. She is not speaking the truth. She thinks you don't have any sense. Support your child but don't continue to be intimate with this woman.

Pastor