Dear Pastor,

Some women do not like to experience new adventures such as doing the 69 position or taking it from the kitchen door during sex. It is a private matter between couples what they do behind closed doors. Because some of these women do not want to please their men, the men go to other women who are willing to do it with them. Doing new things during sex makes a couple's love life sweeter and the relationship longer lasting.

G.M.,

Dear G.M.,

I understand what you are saying, but I will make one comment. Although some wives refuse to do certain positions that their husbands insist that they should do, husbands ought to realise that it is wrong to force their spouses to do what they do not wish to do. Neither should husbands use that as an excuse to run around and become sexually involved with other women.

Pastor