Dear Pastor,

I am having a problem and I need your advice. I am currently in a relationship with a man who supports me in every way possible. However, I recently got involved with my high school lover. He is more caring and understanding, but he is broke.

My problem is, I do not think I will have a bright future with him. I do not want to lose the man I am with now. I am confused as both men are generous and loving and I want to make the right decision with whom I ought to stay.

Pastor, what do you think I should do? I await your response.

S., St. Catherine

Dear S.,

It is greed why you have got involved with the second man. You want too much. Love does not mean much to you, it is money you are interested in. And if you continue that way, you will be used by men. You are only with these two men to get something out of them. You talk about the second man being loving and caring and at the same time you say both of them are generous and loving. You are not with these men by mistake, you are with them because it is your desire to be with them.

What wrong has the first guy done to you? The answer is nothing. And if he has not done anything wrong, why are you with the second man? Turn around. You are going the wrong way. If you really truly love the first man, I would not have to tell you what to do with the second man.

Pastor