Dear Pastor,

Men must learn to take care of themselves just like women do. I love when my man gets his hair done and shave his face. Sometimes I even shave him and help him with his appearance. He smells good even when he is not wearing cologne. He just has a special odour that I love.

Pastor, I had a man before who didn't care about his appearance and that turned me off so much. Now, I am happier and more attracted and drawn into my new man. Hygiene is good for both women and men.

Men must bathe, brush teeth, use cologne, iron clothes, comb hair and clean their shoes etc.

A well-dressed and clean man is a blessing to a woman.

R. A.,

Dear R.A.,

Now that you have found a clean man, I hope that the relationship would not only be based on physical attraction. I hope that he is a person with ambition. And that he saves and has a good job. Too often some women only want men who are sweet boys. And by that I mean, they spend all their money on themselves and don't plan for the future. Enjoy yourselves but don't waste your money.

Pastor