Dear Pastor,

Your views on oral sex are obvious even though you have not shared it. On many occasions you have gone completely silent when the topic has been mentioned.

You need to tell people what they do with their partners in their bedroom is totally up to them and no one outside of that room has the right to tell them otherwise.

B.L., Atlanta, Georgia, U.S.A.

Dear B.L.,

May I remind you I have been writing my columns for years and have said on numerous occasions I do not condemn nor advocate oral sex. You are trying to read my mind. Yes, you are correct. Whatever you and your spouse do in the bedroom is your business.

Pastor