Dear Pastor,

When I was young and naive, I expected perfect love, but this is not a perfect world. I once loved 100 per cent, but now I have become a little shady and have turned to the dark side. My ex-girlfriend tried to give me a 'jacket'. She has a strong head and is very ambitious. Because of what happened, I have cheated on my present woman. Her unconditional love was unexpected and I am overwhelmed, but I have cheated on her. She is older than I am.

J.R.,

Dear J.R.,

It is unfortunate you believe all women are cheaters. I understand you were disappointed by the behaviour of your ex-girlfriend. You claim she tried to give you a 'jacket', but I am sure you know by now there are some genuine women. Therefore, your present girlfriend should be treated with respect. She loves and cares a lot about you. Nurture this relationship and make her feel special.

Pastor