Dear Pastor,

I met this woman and took her on a few cruises. We flew to many countries, wined and dined. I gave her access to my bank account. We were together for eight years. I cannot go into all the details. She was previously married and her husband walked away from his dream house and

let her have it. I was living in another city. One night I went to visit her, unexpected and caught her sleeping with another man.

Pastor, tears came to my eyes but she did not see me crying. We broke up. A year later, she cried for me to come back to her. I never did.

K. M.

Dear K. M.,

You were very liberal and generous with your money. But what you are alleging that this woman did is proof money cannot buy love. This woman evidently did not love you for who you are. She loved you perhaps because you were able to take her on cruises and give her what she wanted.

I am glad you did not have an heart attack when you saw her in bed with another man. What a fool you would be to give her another chance in your life.

Pastor