Dear Pastor,

I recently read in the Jamaican Gleaner how to pleasure a woman using your tongue. Having many Jamaican friends, this type of sexual behaviour is scorned to the utmost. You just have to listen to popular Jamaican music. However, many women claim men say one thing in public, but behind closed doors it is quite another story.

Is this really taboo in Jamaica or has it become acceptable?

N.

Dear N.,

Over the years, sexual practices of men and women have changed. What was once considered taboo is no more. Cable tv and the Internet have contributed much to how people view sexual practices. Both men and women speak freely about what they do to each other sexually. While some men continue to say they do not indulge in certain sexual practices, others claim they are experts. Some married couples engage in the weirdest types of sex. They claim they are doing so to spice up their relationship.

Pastor