Dear Pastor,

There are a lot of things that women can learn from their elders. When a woman gets married, they should understand that there is no "me" in a relationship but "us". Women should learn to be satisfied with what they have and work with their spouses to make life better for both of them. That was one of the main goals of their elders. These are just some of things that make a marriage work.

L. A.

Dear L.A.,

Well said.

Pastor