Dear Pastor,

Greetings to you and your staff. I know a lady and she has asked me to write to you. She was married and her husband died six months ago but he is molesting her. When he died, we told her what colour underwear she should wear, but she did not listen to us. She said she did not believe in those things.

Now sometimes when she is sleeping, she can feel her husband on her and she is struggling to wake up but she cannot. Sometimes when she wakes up, she is wet. Her husband had sex with her.

What can my friend do to keep this man away from her?

M. St. Mary

Dear M.,

Firstly, I am wondering if your so-called friend is really you. Are you not seeking help for yourself?

If this man is dead, how can he be molesting his widow? Why can't she and you realise that he is dead and powerless? To put it plainly, a dead man cannot have sex with his ex-wife. He is dead, so whether she has on white, green or pink underwear, it does not matter.

The mind is powerful, so if this woman believes that her husband is having sex with her, I doubt that she would change, even if an angel tells her it is not possible.

Pastor