Dear Pastor,

Good day to you. I am a regular reader of your column. I pray that God will bless you. I have seen where you help people. I hope you can do the very same thing for me.

I had sex with my boyfriend's brother and he wanted me to be his girlfriend but I told him no. My boyfriend treats me as if I am his friend.

Yet if I say to him, it is over, he would say that he does not want me to leave him. Because of that, he won't talk to his friends or family. What should I do?

On the other hand, his friends say that he loves me, but he does not want to show it. Please help me to decide wisely.

S.D., St Catherine, Jamaica

Dear S.D.,

I don't think you can be proud of yourself knowing that you have had sex with the brother of your boyfriend. He would never respect you and he may even tell his brother not to marry you because you have another man in your life. He may not declare that he is the man, but he may put so much doubt in his brother's mind that he may leave you.

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I know of a man who had sex with his brother's wife and he told his brother that both of them went to bed. As a result of that information, his brother divorced his wife.

Some people don't have good morals. If you are in that category, you should try your very best to change your lifestyle.

Pastor