Dear Pastor,

I recently took a trip to Jamaica, which I hadn't done in years. I think I fell in love with my neighbour again. I have a boyfriend that I'm living with in the United States. Is it possible to love two men at the same time?

Two men, Florida, United States

Dear Two men,

What you are saying is that 'ole fyahstick' caught fire again. When you saw your old neighbour, did you forget that you left your man in America? Yes, a woman can love two men at the same time and a man can love two women at the same time, but she would love one more than the other.

trust

Are you going to tell this man in Jamaica that you love him more than the one that you live with in America? when you go back to America, are you going to go and sleep with the one with whom you are living and tell him how much you missed him? Do you believe the man you described as your neighbour here in Jamaica will ever trust you? I think not. What about his woman who is here in Jamaica?

There are good women in the world. But your behaviour may cause many to wonder whether they are scarce.

Pastor