II have been with my babyfather for 10 years and he always cheats on me. When I talk to him about how I feel, he just says he loves me and he's not cheating and these women are lying on him. I read his email and saw the letters they wrote to him, but he keeps saying he doesn't know what they are talking about. I cry a lot and I am not working now. I don't know what to do anymore.

Please, tell me what to do.

D.T.,

Dear D.T.,

Try and get a job. The worst thing a woman can do is to feel that she has to put up with anything a man does, whether good or bad. A woman should be prepared to walk out of a relationship even if she has to beg for shelter or go back to her parents .

Pastor