Dear Pastor,

I am in love with a guy but I am not sure where I stand in his life. He says that he is serious about the relationship but I am not sure if I can trust him.

We have been together for six months and we are sexually involved. I love him but I feel so insecure.

What do you believe that I should do?

R.M., St Andrew, Jamaica

Dear R.M.,

This relationship is still very new. Give it time to develop. Six months is not enough time for a couple to know each other.

If you don't trust him, why did you end up in bed with him? He will think that you are easy to get. So, get some high standards and give the relationship some time to grow.

Pastor