Dear Pastor,
I am 26 years old and married. I have a problem with my husband. He is 32 years old and he doesn't make love to me, even if I caress him. I cheated on him with a guy who is 23 and it was the best time I have ever had in my life. The guy even performed oral sex on me. He makes me weak and I love him.
Pastor, I don't know what to do.
Naughty wife, England
Dear Naughty wife,
Are you saying that your husband has caused you to be unfaithful to him? What do you believe is the problem? When did you cheat? Often when a spouse is not happy with his/her
partner, it is difficult to relate to each other sexually. Therefore both of you must settle your differences early.
Time is a factor
I must ask this question again: When did you cheat? Could it be that your husband suspects that you are cheating? I believe he has. You may be doing something outside the ordinary.
If you want to save your marriage, end the relationship with the 23-year-old man. You should suggest to your husband that both of you should see a marriage counsellor for help.
Pastor
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