Dear Pastor,

My boyfriend has been asking me from time to time for a threesome. We have talked about it and he has informed me that it is not only what he wants, but what I want as well.

To be honest, I have always been curious as to what it would be like to be with a woman but have never gone through with it. Well to make a long story short, I have decided to do this with him and another woman which he has 'messed' around with before and who has done it before with other people.

My question to you is, what is the huge fascination for a man being together with two heterosexual women? If you can please shed some light or an opinion, that would be great.

Curious, Canada

Dear Curious,

The question you addressed to me should be appropriately addressed to your boyfriend who wants a threesome. You fantasise about engaging in a threesome too. So now you have agreed to have another woman in your bed and make love to her and allow her to make love to you and your boyfriend. And all three of you do the things that you have always imagined.

Your mind is just as corrupt as your boyfriend and the girl who will join both of you in bed. If she has any STIs, she will pass it on to you. Your boyfriend will eventually leave you. Men who are serious about their women don't ask them to engage in threesomes.

Pastor