Dear Pastor,

I am a 19-year-old girl who has a 23-year-old old boyfriend. We are together for nine years now and we have a child together.

I love him dearly and I would die for him, but sometimes he gets on my nerves.

He is at present in prison. He did four months for something else and now he is back doing seven years. I am wondering if I should wait on him because he keeps telling me I should.

N.T., St. James, Jamaica

Dear N.T.,

many persons have gone to prison, and while in prison, they have reformed and return to society better than they went in. Others have become worst than they went in. Please decide whether or not you are prepared to take the risk with this man.

Pastor