Dear Pastor,

I have been dating a guy for one year, but he always wants things to go his way and I am really stressed out about it. I always buy him whatever he wants and the minute I say I want something, he asks me if it can't wait. Please tell me what to do.

S.C., Florida

Dear S.C.,

Learn to keep your money in your purse or put it in the bank, which is a safer place. Some men call women "gold diggers" but your boyfriend is clearly a "sweet boy", who believes that he should live off you. You give freely, but he is tight with his money. In other words he is mean. Mean men do not make good husbands. Good men learn to take care of their women by sharing their resources with them. When a man constantly ask a woman, why she needs "so and so" and why can't she wait and why does she have to have it now, she should realise that he would not be a good husband to her. She should drop him as "hot cake". Mean men don't become liberal in their giving after they are married

Pastor