Dear Pastor,

I have a good friend whose girlfriend wants to leave him. They have a child together. She told him that she loves him but she is not in love with him. She told him that she would prefer an open relationship while they still live together. She said he cannot satisfy her in bed and that is her biggest problem. Whenever they have a threesome, he ejaculates quickly and that makes her feel badly. He is 36 and she is 28.

S.B.

Dear S.B.,

I can't encourage any couple to engage in a threesome and any man who is suffering from premature ejaculation should seek professional help. A relationship should mean much more than having sex, especially immoral sexual behaviour.

Pastor