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How to leave him

Dear Pastor,

I am writing about the lady in Virginia who says that she doesn't know how to walk away from the man she loves. My advice to her is to get up, pack her things and leave and never look back. I am telling her this for her own good.

I was deeply in love with a white man. I loved him very much and didn't think that I could walk away but I just got up one day, left and didn't look back. He called me and told me how much he loves me and that I should come back and he would give me his BMW.

I told him yes, I would be there as soon as I could but deep down I knew that I was not going back. I know he is mad at me but I don't care. I said, "good riddance."

I don't have anyone right now but it is better off to be single than to let men use me like a doormat. We ladies need to start using the one strike law and let them stop using us.

If I didn't run, this man would use me like a bar of soap. We think that our black men are bad, check out the white men, they are worse than dogs. They have a lot of fun sleeping with black women, but to marry one of us? Oh no! We are not good enough. Black men should stick to their black women and let white women go back to their white men.

Thank you.

G. A., Philadelphia, USA

Dear G.A,

Well, you speak from experience. You are an intelligent black woman. Not everybody would agree with what you said but that is how you see it. Love you, my darling. Keep strong.

Pastor